Have some tough news to deliver?
Use a one-two approach: affirm their value, then critique their performance. Too often managers open with the tough stuff, and when they do they cause the other person to go into a defensive posture — or shut down as psychologists say — and hear nothing else.
If you play it straight and with dignity, you demonstrate that you care about your employees.
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